Sibling Love

It’s So precious to see my son with my baby girl. He is the best big brother ever! He was an only child for Nine years and he was so excited to become a big brother. I thought the love and kindness he had might wear off but it’s still going strong. He is a kind gentle soul always has been. He is so loving to her kind even  when he is in trouble and she is getting attention or praise he just is an awesome big brother. My daughter loves him so much too she is very close to him and other than me and my husband she longs to have him hold her and spend time with her she loves him with all her heart and misses him when he’s at school. They will have a strong bond that lasts forever and it makes my heart so happy. My brother is eight years old than I am and I always loved him and longed for a close relationship did anything and I everything I could for him especially during hard times in his life. I also have been the best Aunt ever to his kids. I love them with all my heart. But He has spent the last fourteen years  shutting out my family being so hurtful to my mom and dad and keeping the younger kids from us his oldest we always saw because his mother has been good to us. What is funny is it doesn’t matter that he’s never taken any interest in my life my children, husband etc. But that I was there for him for all three of my niece and nephews births for both his weddings his first divorce I was the one cooking for him taking care of his son. I still send cards for Christmas every year for birthdays and now that my nephews are out of the house I see them and hear from them all the time which is great but my niece is 14 years old and I have not had anytime with her. I did have her in my wedding but she chose not to meet my daughter when she was born only her older brothers have shown an interest in our family. I pray everyday for them to have a wonderful life.I love them all. I am just so grateful that my Son will be a wonderful brother to his sister for life. She will in turn be a great sister to him and they will bond forever.