It’s very important to me that my husband feel a priority to me. Sometimes with life’s busy schedule unplanned chaos and stress you forget to take that time to connect to your partner. Having two children under 11 can take up a lot of your time attention and energy. I believe displaying a healthy loving relationship is part of raising good children. I want them to see my husband and me love each other take time for each other. Once my daughter arrived summer of 2015 it was hard we were sleep deprived and had so much going on to zap our energy. We even had just lost my grandmother before our daughter was born. My father law was battling cancer. After the holidays passed I knew we had to start looking for s sitter and not just relying on an outing once a month while my parents watched kids. We saw a lot of candidates before we chose our weekly child care provider. Now each week we plan a real date get time to talk to one another enjoy each other’s company. Flirt with each other be playful. Try new things is very important as well. We started taking ballroom dance classes 6 weeks ago. Doing this even when schedule is hectic and money is tight at times is more than worth it. My husband and I stay connected recharged and grow deeper in love with each other when we nurture our love.