Feel pretty special and happy tonight 😀Can’t remember last time I took an hour for myself outside the house just me in the evening. Tonight my Pure Barre class hosted a special Tuck and Glow event and I signed up to go.
I am so happy I went the Vibes were so upbeat fun and music and people were great nice seeing new and old friends tonight. A few of the husbands and boyfriends and male friends joined and the guys did great ! We were in the dark wearing the light up jewelry and headpieces.
I did Pure Empower this morning so I really felt it doing another class tonight. I miss nights of dancing all night I think that’s as close as I’ve been in years last night I was able to dance the night away was at my wedding reception.
When I was younger I was dancing minimum four hours a night nearly every night of the week then as I got older it got to one or two nights. But I would do 2-3 hours at the gym and was constantly at the park chasing my son around.
Exercise and dance bring me happiness and so does music it. Rings me so much happiness. I am hoping since Britney I heard signed another deal to stay in Las Vegas that my husband will finally take me to see her and take me out dancing all night while we are in Vegas.
I got to meet my friends husband tonight that was nice and seeing old high school friends and the gals I know from my regular Pure barre classes.
I made sure to pick my daughter up early today to get extra playtime with her since I’d be doing my class for an hour this evening. Fed my kiddos early and then been watching shows with them since I got home. Just put my little one down for bedtime. Me and my son are watching f8 of the furious movie.
I miss being more social with friends working on adding more of that to my life again. My kids and husband are my world and whole heart but I want to make sure I remain a whole person who has my own interests and friends. Empty nesters seem to sink or swim and it’s usually hardest on those who don’t take care of themselves and their needs.
Same thing when you see someone lose a spouse to death or divorce they sometimes start off good but then just retreated and stop hanging around those who are in relationships and happy. I learned a long time ago you need to be comfortable in your own skin and happy being yourself and not need your spouse or kids to make you happy.
When you take control of your happiness and realize you choose to be happy mad sad jealous depressed or energetic and outgoing. When you do that it’s liberating. You shouldn’t need anyone to do everything for you to be ok or happy.
Life is never easy we all have our own set of struggles and losses but it’s how we get through them that shapes us and strengthens us. I am gonna sleep well tonight and look forward to a wonderful weekend with my kids.
Wish everyone a good nights rest and fabulous weekend 😀🤗🌻🏡🐶💤