November 14, 2018

Had a nice couple of days glad I’ve been back at Pure Barre got in two great workouts.

So nice to seeing such great friends today. Yesterday night was so nice having some mommy daughter time dinner and movie and cuddles and story time.

Today I got lots of laundry done got a morning coffee date with my hubby. Got in a great workout.

Our Christmas family pajamas arrived today and yesterday I got my monthly Birchbox. I booked our family photos.

I took Charly to get groomed and I have my appointment set for my hair tomorrow. My husband has begun workouts again which is so great.

He’s already lost weight on his diet. We took our daughter to dinner tonight while our son was at football practice and we got him some food to go for after his practice.

Looking forward to Thanksgiving and to all our holiday fun November and December.

Slowly getting all the Christmas list checked off for kids. Hope everyone had a wonderful day!

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My Name is Jennifer .I was born and raised in California.I am the proud mother of two incredible children Brandon and Savannah.I enjoy trying new things,Outdoor adventures,new recipes, and travel, just to name a few.I hope to encourage others to try new things! I strive to learn as much as possible. I am on a journey to be my best self. Working out more drinking half my body weight in water. Meditating and journaling to find inner peace. I am working on my self esteem and have lots of goals I’m working towards. I cherish my family and friends and never take a single moment for granted.

One thought on “November 14, 2018

  1. I know I am not alone! This is been going on for over 20 years. I do not have the resources to fight back this situation any longer, and I am trying to fight for my rights and for the well-being of my daughter and to be in her life as a normal father should be with his daughter in the first place.

    In mid of 1997 a woman came into my life, Martha, who within a year in half we were married in Dec 1998. In a short span of time after we were married, it was clear to me that Martha really was not committed to the marriage. Our daughter was born in summer 2001. Through trials and tribulations and unbeknownst to me at the time, I had married this person who was an undocumented immigrant, only interested in one thing; to take advantage of the system, for her gain. I did what I could at the time, my daughter and I became more of a victim of so much crime across the board.

    Through a series of events, I learned Martha used a different name and two different social security numbers to procure work, before and thru the marriage, unbeknownst to me, at the same time, in Sept 2001, while my mom and I with my new born daughter, when filing a false claim/high risk flight police report, I found out more than expected. A Mr. Wolf, INS investigations, told us, Martha has an “Active Deportation Warrant, for illegal re- entry into the U.S., and was previously Deported in 1998,” and was in possession of false identity fraud/theft, and a 10 bar placed on her. Mr. Wolf told me they would get a Warrant for Martha’s arrest and will be picked up and deported, see Exhibit C, D, E, and H. In the wake of the 9/11 attacks Martha was no longer a priority. We divorced 2003.

    I was wrongfully/ falsely accused of acts of domestic violence (like so many US citizens) that was unfounded and dismissed in court. The damage was/is already done. Martha has tendencies, a pattern of lying, obfuscating and distortion of facts and the truth. Limitations/ restrictions were placed on Martha, where the Judge in our divorce case ordered Martha not to remove, our daughter from court jurisdiction or the state (Exhibit G). Martha managed to take my daughter out of my life in 2001-03, and in violation of these orders. After the divorced Martha fled the state with our daughter, unbeknownst to me.

    I located my daughter and her mom in the summer of 2017; they live in Arkansas, County of Washington or Benton. I have not seen my daughter in 14 years. I had learned that her mom is still using the system to try and gain legal status in this country. After five months of a relationship with my daughter, Martha has managed to take my daughter out of my life once again, and make false accusations again against me. She refuses to allow and continues to deprive me to have a fundamental right father-daughter relationship with my daughter and her to me (back then and now). All I ever wanted was to be the father should be in his daughter’s life and her in mine! I am a grief-stricken father. I feel I will not be able to make this journey of life, as a father without his daughter, not having a parental right to my daughter in her life and her in my life.

    In recent news stories, by the current administration, the undocumented illegal immigrant with families being torn from their children and how all of these activists are appalled at the outset, how this could happen in America, reported in the last year. What about the U.S. Citizens who are victims too, like my daughter and me of immigration fraud, torn apart from one another? How can this happen? I am missing out on her my daughter’s life; I want so desperately to know. My daughter and I have rights too to be together! My daughter and her mom have been living in hiding due to Martha’s status. My daughter has spent time this year in a mental health facility because of her emotional instability she faces.

    Sadly, my daughter Cristina will never get a chance to know or see her Grandmother, my mother Violet, my mom just died of cancer, and passed away on June 22, 2018. Something that was ripped from my daughter and me, due to her mom’s actions, as a result that started 17 years ago on Aug 15, 2001. Her mom has kept our daughter from her father’s (me) and my extended family. This is one sided! There is something fundamentally wrong with this picture. Martha has demonstrated her disregard for the rule of law and Gods law, and poses a threat to Cristina and me, and my parental and fundamental right, by keeping us apart, being deprived of a father-daughter relationship, including to my extended family.

    I learned from a letter dated July 11, 2017, Martha is stating she is a “victim of a crime,” perhaps from another man, and that a “U Nonimmigrant visa” is being filed on her behalf (Exhibit L). I strongly believe based on what I see, Martha may have already received final order to leave the country, but has not left, and thus she is claiming “victim of a crime,” a stunt she pulled with me in 2001 and she may be doing it again, to evade deportation. I feel Martha is desperate at this point, like in 2001, and she will do anything to stay in this country, and I fear Martha may start claiming asylum, even if it means, destroying a father and daughters relationship in the process. To this day Martha has never answered for her crimes.

    My daughter and I continue to be victims and derived of a father daughter familial bond emotional relationship. I am an aggrieved U.S. Citizen/broken Grief-stricken Father, and Victim of: Immigration Crime, Marriage Fraud, Mental Abuse Control, Parental Alienation, Psychological manipulation, and extreme cruelty, deprived of my parental and fundamental rights, and isolated from my daughter, inter alia.

    Mark Smith,
    818 795 7240

    Dedicated Facebook pg my daughter:
    Here is my/our story:!KtVTEShb!iKCJsED13Yu-APHXjWQGbw
    YouTube Ded Vid to my Daughter from Dad:…


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